A guide for every season of your marriage
Written from our own journey and the journeys of couples we’ve walked alongside, this is the book that invites Holy Spirit into the most important human relationship you have.
Marriage was made for three
Marriage was never meant to be navigated on your own strength. It was designed by God to be a partnership of three: husband, wife, and Holy Spirit.
This book is the product of our own journey: the valleys, the breakthroughs, and the slow, moment-by-moment learning of what it means to let Holy Spirit lead in the most intimate relationship we have. It’s also the fruit of years spent walking alongside couples in every season: newlyweds full of hope, long-married couples hungry for more, and marriages seeking healing and restoration.
“This isn’t theory. This is transformation.”
Inside these pages, you won’t find formulas or multi-step programs. You’ll find biblical truth, honest storytelling, practical application, and an invitation to let Holy Spirit do what He does best: transform. Each chapter is designed to be read together as a couple, discussed openly, and applied with the Spirit’s guidance.
Spirit Filled Marriage is more than a book. It’s an invitation to grow closer to God and one another. The same principles shared in these pages form the foundation of our 15-week marriage journey, helping couples build a stronger, Spirit-led marriage one step at a time.
What you’ll walk through together
Fifteen chapters, read and discussed together as a couple, moving from love to lasting oneness.
Love from the Father
You were made for relationship with God. Real love stays out of reach until you invite Holy Spirit to lead you, and learn to love the way He loves.
Imperfection Comes Together
Two imperfect people, brought together to live out the oneness that only comes from God.
Spirit Filled Grace
Unmerited favor and undeserved love from the Father. You do not earn it, you receive it freely.
Humility
Thinking of yourself less. Growing in the self-awareness that changes how you see yourself and how you treat each other.
Communication
A powerful part of any marriage. Mutual understanding is how you show respect and appreciation for one another.
Communication in Action
Putting it into practice, where honest, humble conflict becomes an opportunity for deeper connection.
Forgiveness
You gain the most when you offer it. Walking in the forgiveness and freedom Jesus secured through His life and resurrection.
Activating Forgiveness
Living forgiveness out, so marriage becomes a lifelong practice of extending the grace Christ first gave you.
Commitment
Covenant, not contract. Understanding the difference reshapes how you hold your marriage and every relationship.
Truth
Worldly views distract from biblical truth. Your marriage has been set apart for His glory.
Expectations
Naming what each of you expects. Honest expectations become fuel for your own growth and your marriage.
Mutual Respect
You are each wonderfully and differently made. God meets you there, guiding you toward holiness together.
Intimacy
Being fully known without fear. Knowing one another the way Adam and Eve did before the fall.
Physical Intimacy
Oneness is the goal of a Kingdom marriage, a gift from God that grows your spiritual maturity together.
Oneness
The covenant lived out, partnering together in spiritual oneness for the rest of your lives.
What couples are saying
Unlike other marriage books I’ve read and materials I have studied, this book focuses on a crucial element that is not usually mentioned: the power of praying and waiting on Holy Spirit. While other biblically grounded guidance shares verses and ways to take action, this book does that, but reminds you that you have a Helper who is advocating for you. Such a clear and encouraging resource.
This book is a true blessing! Filled with practical guidance and spiritual wisdom, it’s helped strengthen our marriage and deepen our faith together. Highly recommended for couples seeking God-centered growth.
I personally know the authors and they are true Godly people who live out what they preach. So glad they have this book. A definite go-to if your marriage is struggling, or you just want to improve your marriage relationship.
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